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a new New Year's invitation

As is usual, I am hearing people around me and on media speaking about New Year's resolutions and doing things differently in 2015. I am now long past the age of believing that such resolutions have much chance of coming true or taking root over the long term. They are mostly about eating, dieting, exercising, losing weight and doing more healthy things. By February, most have fallen away.

This year I have been thinking about something different. What if, instead of physical resolutions, we thought of spiritual and relational ones? What if we resolved to focus more on others, and less on our own image, health, possessions, desires? So I am suggesting (and doing my own resolving in this direction today) that kindness be a resolution...or to be more understanding of what I judge so quickly as another's shortcomings? (really only my own ego and resistance reacting in pride and self-righteousness)/

Robert Sardello, in his book The Power of Soul: Living the Twelve Virtues, shows how to "educate the emotions, refine the soul, and develop inner character" by working these virtues into our lives: Devotion, Balance, Faithfulness, Selflessness, Compassion, Courtesy, Equanimity, Patience, Truth, Courage, Discernment, and Love.

This year, I think I will explore again how to bring more of these virtues into my daily life. There is nothing else I need, nor any other way to shape myself. Elder age - though for any age this is true - is about the intensifying of presence to give more to the world.

And if Sardello's virtues are not enough, there are always the gifts of the Holy Spirit!

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18.03 | 17:38

Edith is our mentor and prophet for the times she knows we are trying to let go, be freed from whatever impedes growth,goodness and giving!

14.03 | 19:26

Thank you Brenda for providing this resource. Your selection of books make fine companions on life's path, especially at this time.

14.03 | 12:11

And here we are manifesting to each other and the universe! Your poem is soulful, Gina, dealing with the unknowns of each day as they come. Thanks for sharing.

13.03 | 19:34

Hi Brenda, just read new poeming 4 and your new wild geese is where we are all getting to I hope just love it, Ken

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